Why do some of us experience 'spiritual crisis' and others don't? Here are some possible reasons and some preventative measures.
- Early childhood trauma or indeed shock and trauma of any kind. If we think of the body as a house that needs to have solid foundations in order to support the upper floors, we can see how cracks in those foundations will have an effect. Spiritual practice can be problematic when used to 'by-pass' or 'rise above' our wounding. Being in psychotherapy, or working with the body in some way, e.g craniosacral therapy may be helpful.
- Lack of context ... Most spiritual paths encourage people to practise within a community of like minded people or to have a guide, spiritual teacher, guru or mentor. In these days many of us will try a mix of practices without seeing them in the context of lineage or community. Even if you find groups difficult and don't accept that you need a guide, see if you can find some way of connecting to a sense of all the people who have trod the path before you -the roots- and all the people who are currently on the journey with you.
- Lack of grounding... There is a Sufi saying: 'Trust in God but tie up your camel'. Most spiritual paths have their version of stories that extoll the virtues of 'doing ordinary'. (see Jack Cornfields book 'After The Ecstasy, The Laundry'). Cooking, eating warming grounding foods, gardening, walking barefoot on the earth, being in nature, even paying the bills or cleaning the house...these are all examples of simple practices that can help us stay grounded on the spiritual path. It may also be helpful to temporarily stop any spiritual practice such as meditation, chanting, etc.
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